Ten on Tuesday, Game Edition

This week, Carole asked us to think back to childhood and share a list of games we played.  

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1.  Dolls.  There are no rules to this game, but I loved playing with my dolls.  Paper dolls, soft dolls, anything dolls, and I was in.

2.  TV shows.  The four or five youngest of us in my neighborhood liked to re-inact our favorite tv shows.  Land of the Lost was a big favorite, as was Charlie's Angels.

3.  Spit.  My oldest sister and I played this by the hour, and I still love a good game of spit.

4.  Reading catalogs.  Is that a game?  Well, even if not, I certainly spent many, many hours poring over the Enchanted Dollhouse catalog.

5.  Hide and Go Seek.  I loved that thrill of hiding out.  I was not so keen on being the seeker.

6.  Field.  Again, not really a game, but a big part of my childhood.  We had a huge field across the stream behind our house that developers had started to dig up, but then stopped.  We played endlessly on the huge mounds of dirt and explored the area for hours on end.  As a young teenager, I borrowed my older sister's skis and learned to cross-country ski there.

7.  Monopoly.  As the youngest of five kids, I often had to beg for siblings to play with me.  This was one of my faves.

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  8.  Dress up.  I had a rich fantasy life, even as a child.  I liked to listen to my records and tapes of fairy tales and dress up and dream.  On the back of this picture, my mom wrote that my gram had made the hat, and I wouldn't take it off for anything~not even bath time!

9.  Tree climbing.  Well, there was only tree I really liked to climb, and I was pretty adept at doing so with a book in tow.  I felt so free and secure on my favorite branch.  

10.  Monkey bars.  We just called the contraption, which would probably never be sold today, "the bars".  It was red.  It folded in half.  It could easily tumble down or pinch a kid's fingers.  But, man, did my sisters and I spend hours flipping around that thing, playing at being gymnasts.

It seems like there were a hundred other games and things I loved to do to occupy my time as a kid.  How about you?  What was your favorite game as a child?

Ten on Tuesday, Organized Edition

Over the last few years, my life has changed a lot.  While some of my usual organizational methods have remained useful, others no longer suit, leaving me in the process of finding the Goldilocks system.  There are some things I think Help me to be More Organized, the subject of this week's Ten on Tuesday.

1.  Saving documents.  I am consistent in how I save my work.  Letters are always saved "x name date".  X=letter, name=recipient, date=when written.  I save writing by "title, draft, version, date" (commas not allowed, of course).  Classroom documents are saved by semester, class, doc title, date.  These little consistencies make it easy for me to track my work, returning to earlier versions with little hassle.

2.  Computer desktop folders.  I get a little chill of fear when I see a desktop absolutely littered with documents.  Creating a folder by project, activity, whatever makes sense, and placing all the documents in that folder help me to stay organized.  And to avoid feeling overwhelmed when I turn on my computer.

3.  Routines. The best routine I've ever started was to put my keys in the same place.  Always.  Every time.  I impose that on Neal, and he laughs at me, but if he drops the keys on the counter, as soon as I see them, I pop them into the key basket.  I never want to be that person searching for keys.  They go in the same place in my purse, too.

4. Real folders.  The trick is to make sure you use a system that makes sense to you.  I have big subjects (Dogs, Warranties, etc.), and I also have folders for each of my short stories/articles. I keep folders for inspiring magazine images, too, though I'm using Pinterest far more than I'm ripping magazines apart. 

5.  Separate things by use.  Spices that I use predominately for baking are on a different shelf than those I use for cooking.  

6.  Pretend to be a librarian.  If like me you have lots of books (or cds or any other physical media), don't lump them all together.  I have fiction and non-fiction on different bookshelves, and the non-fiction is further broken down.  Short story collections are separate from fiction.  Craft books have their own shelf, as do poetry and Classical literature.  Shakespeare also has his own shelf–I have collected works, many of the Arden editions of individual plays, and critical books.  Stop judging; I wrote my MA thesis about his work and can't let go of the texts I labored with for so long!

7.  Sort the mail immediately.  I don't linger with mail.  If I'm going to read a magazine or catalog, it goes on the coffee table.  Neal's mail is placed on his desk.  Anything to which I need to respond goes on my desk.  Recycling goes out the door to its new home, the blue bin.  Piles of mail give me anxiety, so I deal with it right away.

8.  Plan the week's menu.  I was amused to recently see that another blogger has posted a menu-planning worksheet.  It seems a bit overkill to me, but if you don't already have a system, I suppose it is useful.  I try to grocery shop on Sundays during the semester.  While I'm having my morning coffee, I go through recipes and write up dinner menus for the week bearing in mind late days (I won't want to cook much) or evenings out (Neal fends for himself, usually with something on the grill).  It makes grocery shopping easier and probably less expensive, and I don't have to think to hard about food for the rest of the week.

9.  Don't trust your memory.  Have a secure place for important documents.  My ex-husband's filing system before we got married involved his record collection.  I'm not even kidding.  I would never trust myself to remember that my birth certificate was filed in Abbey Road because the Beatles started working on it not long after I was born.

10.  Purge.  Project 333 has been amazing for many reasons, and topmost is the purging of ill-fitting, worn-out, or simply not my style clothes that I have done.  I am far more organized when I get dressed now, and I'm much more organized about what pieces I would like in order to make my wardrobe work even better. This weekend I purged a lot of fiber from my spinning stash, and the yarn stash is slated for the next big purge!

For all I have to say about organization, I'm still struggling with finding a way to merge my home calendar, work calendar, paper calendar, and electronic calendars in a way that will be most effective and efficient for me.  If I figure it out, you'll be the first to know!

Meanwhile, what helps you to be more organized?

 

Ten on Tuesday, Don’t Make Me Live Without These Edition

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Carole's directive for this week is "Ten Things I Wouldn't Want to Live Without".  I'm glad I re-read it. First time around, I had "couldn't do without" in my head, and that is a different thing entirely.  After spending most of Monday morning discussing what I couldn't do without with Neal, I realized shelter was the only thing.  Maybe running water, but I suppose I could make do if I had to, at least for a while.

Anyway, Wouldn't Want to Live Without is so much more fun.  So, here goes:

1.  My computer.  Rupert and I work and play a lot together.  I believe that a person should have her own computer, unshared by others who might eff up settings, put fingerprints on a screen, or any number of other unsavory insults.  I would not want to live without Rupert all to myself.

2.  Yarn.  What would keep my hands busy if I couldn't knit or crochet?  Oh, I know, I know.  There are plenty of other hobbies, but yarn is the supply I would not want to live without.

3.  Kindle.  Shannenabler as I like to call her convinced me two years ago that the Kindle was nothing short of necessary to an avid reader.  As she always is, she was right.  I don't use it to the exclusion of books, which some people seem to think is the future. Instead, I prefer it to carrying several books around in my bag when I'm traveling, and it is also much easier to schlep around in my handbag.  I would not want to live without my Kindle, or some sort of e-reader.

4.  Fluevog Chinoas.  These boots take a few minutes to lace and buckle, but if I need to feel like a badass, these are my shoes of choice.  I would not want to live without shoes that make me walk a little taller. 

5.  Compact OED. I may not consult it often, and I suppose I can access the OED online now, but I would not want to live without this dictionary on my bookshelf.

6.  A car.  Well, technically, I would like to live without a car, but that would mean relocating to a place I know N. would not like.  Since I live in the woods, sans a bus or train line that would put me near my campus, I would not want to live without a car.   

7.  Trixie Trek, my bike.  I love to ride my bike.  I would not want to live without the freedom and strength I feel when I ride her.

8.  Saag paneer.  A world without my favorite Indian dish would be a sadder world.  I would not want to live without food that makes me as happy as saag paneer does.

9. Addi Clicks.  #2 would do me little good sans needles, and the Clicks are my main choice. N. was super generous to me this Christmas and spoiled me with a second set, lace Clicks.  Oh, I do love a sharp point!  Don't get me wrong, I'm also a fan of the Signature needles, but since I own the Clicks I know I would not want to live without them. 

10. Paper.  I'm a paper junky.  I like handmade paper, handcrafted journals, stationery, composition books.  I wouldn't want to live without paper, no matter how much I prefer to write on Rupert.

So you don't think I'm a big meany who would be happy to live without her husband or friends, remember Carole's words:  people (and dogs!) are not things!

What things would you not want to live without?

*If I added an 11th, it would have to be my new washer/dryer set.  After months without a dryer, I know I prefer not to live without one!

Ten on Tuesday, Intentions Edition

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Today's list is Ten Intentions for 2011.  I am glad Carole didn't use the word "resolutions".  When I resolve to do or not do things, I fail.  A lot.  I'm going to take up her word "intention" and have a more mindful attitude about the changes I want to make.

1. Revamp my project organization.  Not my knitting projects, silly.  That's what Ravelry is for.  I had a few bursts of creative thinking over the last few months, which have led me to several ideas worth exploring.  I want to be able to keep things straight and give ample time to each project.  This week I'm exploring different organizational methods (beyond my usual to-do list tool): Things, Getting Things Done, and the Action Method.  They are all fairly similar.  My task is to figure out which one makes the most sense to me.

2. Perfect cooking rice.  I don't want to buy a rice cooker (though I know Penny loves hers), and I got a slew of advice via Twitter yesterday.  It's time for me to stop effing up the rice.  I want to feel, deep in my soul, what Amy assured me: it is no harder than cooking pasta.  Please don't judge me on this shortcoming.

3. Take longer bike rides.  In 2010, I got on my bike more frequently.  In 2011, I want to continue that frequent riding (once the weather is warm again!) and build up mileage.  I dream of riding my bike across the country one summer, and building mileage is one way to help me to achieve that dream.

4.  Rekindle my daily writing practice.  Last semester kicked my butt.  My good writing habits went by the wayside.  It is time to get them back, get the never-ending novel finished and move on!

5.  Participate in Christina's Project Define 365.  I'm hoping that I can learn to take better pictures, enjoy connecting words and images, and explore my life all at the same time!

6.  Improve my gardening.  We've roped off a sunnier spot in the front yard for the 2011 garden, and I am going to be much more thoughtful about what I plant.  I tend to lose my head when it comes to buying seeds and plants, and I end up with produce I don't eat (peppers!) and have to find uses for or dump on my neighbors.  This year we're going to implement tactics from Gaia's Garden.

7. Finish some of the knits languishing about.  There are so many projects I want to start, but I must have some discipline.  I must.

8.  Go on a yarn fast.  All of the office cleaning I've been doing in preparation for a big design revamp has made it clear to me that I do not need another skein of yarn.  Sure, I might want it, but for 2011, I'm going to set up some guidelines. 

9.  Participate in another 365 project inspired by Noah Scalin.  I'm hammering out the idea still, but I'm close.  I'm close.

10.  Pare down my clothes.  Project 333 has been fruitful, and I want to build on it.  I plan to participate in the next round, with some modifications to make the project suit me better.  I don't want to go back to a crammed closet, though.  

How about you?  What are some of your intentions for 2011?

Ten on Tuesday, Last Minute Gifts Edition

This week's list asks for Top Ten Last Minute Gift Ideas.  Here goes:

1.  Tickets to an event.  A play, a game, a concert, a ballet, a symphony.  Whatever the person enjoys, it is pretty easy to purchase tickets online and write up a card to put under the tree.

2.  Pastry-of-the-Month Club.  I gave this to my dad for his 70th birthday, and when my mom turned 70, she wanted it, too.  I took twelve postcards, stamped and put my address on them, and on each I gave a choice of three things to bake.  The recipient mails the card back, and you make them a treat.  You could do this for anything–chore of the month, dinner of the month…whatever you like to do and you know the recipient will enjoy.  The added bonus: if you live nearby, it's a great excuse to visit each month as you deliver on your club.  

3.  Lessons.  What does the recipient want to learn?  Can you teach that skill?  If so, make up a certificate for a fun afternoon of lunch and lessons.  If you can't teach it, is there a place near the recipient that can?  I'm hoping for a few private downhill ski lessons, but cooking lessons at Sur la Table (or Williams and Sonoma–my sister goes to their classes frequently) would be great, too.

4.  Fitness.  Gift certificates to a yoga studio, ballet school, pool, or whatever your recipient likes to do are quick to order for those near and far.

5. Museum membership.  Pick a museum near the recipient that s/he will enjoy.  The summer I lived in Oxford I visited the Ashmolean practically every other day because I didn't have to pay to get in.  I felt no guilt about going in to look at one object for twenty minutes and leaving.  

6.  Music.  Does your giftee have a huge record album collection?  Get digital copies of the records to make them easier to play (I'm assuming, like us, the record player is not with all the other stereo equipment any more.  Neal keeps his turntable in his work room in the basement.) or introduce your giftee to something new and wonderful.

7.  Massage.  A welcome, relaxing gift, this is easy to purchase long distance or locally.  Really, any spa treatment will do.

8.  Fancy-pants dinner out.  Instead of exchanging gifts, agree with your recipient that you'll wile away a January evening at a posh restaurant.  What fun to have a reason to dress up, enjoy great food, and most importantly, a chance to catch up with someone you love.

9.  Car Kit.  I've got young drivers in mind here, but this could work for anyone, really.  Fill a bucket with stuff to keep the car clean, a snow and ice scraper (if you live where that is needed), add a gas card, and maybe even an emergency kit.

10.  A knit hat. I'm the world's slowest knitter, but even I can bang out a hat in an evening or two.  Make it out of something warm and cuddly like Malabrigo, and even the most basic pattern will be a treat.

I'm breaking the rules by adding an eleventh:

Donate to a great cause.  I hope you'll consider donating to my colleague's efforts to build a much-needed classroom in Nicaragua.  If you do, be sure to enter my contest!

What are your ideas for great last-minute gifts?

Ten on Tuesday, To-do List Edition

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I start almost every day with a to-do list.  I keep them in little notebooks; this year, I was given a fantastic moleskine Daily Planner, and I used it with abandon.  When I find a little notebook that has served as my to-do list keeper, I enjoy flipping back through it, recalling the urgency of projects that are long past.  I usually toss them after a while (though I still have the one I used during my transition from New York to New Mexico.  All the lists from selling my co-op and buying my condo are there.  I'm sentimental that way).  This is one of my busiest weeks of the year as I not only work to get grades submitted but to also plan the spring semester (book orders are due!) and manage holiday activities. 

Here, then, is my Ten Things on My To-Do List list

1.  Grade Composition 101 portfolios (today)

2.  Print materials to bring to interview (today…interviewing tomorrow for contract renewal.  Fingers crossed, please).

3.  Dust and vacuum (today…company coming!  Hurrah!)

4.  Put up Christmas tree and decorate (Friday night)

5.  Grade Bus/Tech writing projects and reports (Friday)

6.  Finish reading client's novel manuscript & provide feedback (by Sunday, ideally)

7.  Wrap gifts to ship to TN (yikes! Today!)

8.  Order Neal's gifts (today!)

9.  Sit quietly and knit (every day, for at least 30 minutes)

10.  Tell Neal he is a rock star (our basement flooded yesterday; from 7-9:30, Neal worked in the cold, wet basement until everything was as it should be) (I've told him this already, but that kind of uncomplaining hard work deserves extra praise, don't you think?)

How about you?  What are you dreading most on your to-do list?  What are you eager to get to?

*Somehow this shot of little cairns, found all over the woods where the dogs and I hike, reminds me of to-do lists.  The little stack of activities that make up a to-do list lead to something more powerful.  Or something.

Ten on Tuesday, Holiday Show Edition

Today's topic is Ten Favorite Holiday Shows.  

1.  Radio City Music Hall Christmas Spectacular.  Rockettes.  Live Nativity.  It can't be beat.  As long as you're going to be in Manhattan for the Christmas show, you might as well make reservations at Rolf's. I love it any time of year, but it is pure magic at Christmas.

2. A Christmas Carol at Hartford Stage.  Need to feel festive?  This show will get you in the mood, no matter how Scroogey you've been!

3.  It's a Wonderful Life.  I always get choked up when the town rallies around George at the end of the movie.

4.  White Christmas.  Snow, snow, snow!  This one gets me when the all the former soldiers sing "We'll Follow the Old Man" to the general.  What loyalty!  What generosity of spirit!

5.  A Charlie Brown Christmas.  Is there a better Christmas soundtrack?  Way back in 1990 when I was first married (the first time) and spending my first Christmas away from my family, my ex and his sisters, seeing how sad and lonely I felt, did the Charlie Brown Christmas dance.  It always reminds me of their sweetness to me right when I needed it most.

6.  How the Grinch Stole Christmas.  Every word, every moment is fantastic.

7.  Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer.  One of my mom's favorite holiday songs is "Silver Bells". The show is great, and hearing my mom's favorite song is even better.

8.  Miracle on 34th Street.  I always like seeing that cynical little girl find her way into a miracle.

9.  A Christmas Carol with Alistair Sim.  My favorite film version.

10.  Santa Claus is Coming to Town.  My sister MB will often sing "put one foot in front of the other", which cracks me up.  "Eat, Santa, eat" is another of her favorite quotes.  Apparently, this show made quite an impact on the Army girls!

Time for a confession: I might be the only person I know who does not appreciate A Christmas Story.  I had an ex-boyfriend who loved it, which might be what soured me on it.  I just don't get it.  Am I going to get drummed out of Christmas now?

Now that I've confessed, tell me what your favorite holiday shows are.  Or…what do you NOT like that the rest of the world seems to adore?

Ten on Tuesday: Shopping Edition

Thanks for sharing my joy in the Miracle of the Wedding Ring.  To clarify, Neal has lost (and found) the same ring three times.  The time before this one, he lost it in the fall and found it in the spring while cutting up part of the front yard for sod.  Our yard likes to hang on to the jewelry for a bit!  Margene shared a really nice story about wedding rings.  It's worth clicking over to read!

Now on to Ten on Tuesday!

Today's assignment was to list Ten Places I Love to Shop Online.  

1.  Scout's Swag.  Sure, she's my girly, but have you looked at the colors she puts together lately?  She's got a fantastic array of cool bags and notions, too.  Her customer service is great.

2. Stitched by Jessalu.  Jess's bags are beautifully constructed.  I'm partial to the bucket bags; I have one for hairpin lace projects, and one that hangs off my loom to hold extra bobbins.  The box bags I have are big enough to hold lace or sock projects with room to spare.  I also have my precious Bosworth spindle in one of her spindle bags. Jess is one of my online friends who became an IRL friend, but even if I didn't know her, I'd love her bags and customer service!

3.  Pineapple Seed.  Beautiful and affordable jewelry.  I wear my Perseverance bracelet almost every day, and my number necklace (13 for me!)is dainty and edgy all at once.  Everything comes packaged in a neat tin can, too, which makes gift giving more fun.  

4.  Journey Wheel.  The Bosworth spindles and shuttle I have are among my most treasured tools.  Just as important as the high quality craftsmanship is the great customer service (see a theme in my list?!).  Sheila is quick to respond to email and offer advice, and the products are always joy producing.

5.  Satsuma Press. I adore Lynn's style.  I've been buying her calendars for years, for myself and as gifts, and they are lovely.  Simply lovely. (shh…20% off until midnight 11/30 using code "secretsale")

6.  Floto Imports.  I've been buying bags from them since 2003.  Each one is beautifully crafted and of excellent quality (and stuffed with Italian newspapers!).  When I've had problems, Floto has taken good care of me.  Another sale code: 25% off through Friday using "thanks10" at checkout.

7.  Serenity Stitches. I'm partial to Christina's fiber, and she also has some cool handmade "go green" tools–snack bags, bowl covers.  Nice quality, great customer service (and yes, we've become friends!).

8.  Amazon.  I've tried to keep my list focused on small Indie businesses I love, but I'd be lying if I didn't list Amazon.  Here's how I try to make it a more worthwhile experience.  When I know I want to shop on Amazon, I go to Ravelry, click on a book that leads me to Amazon, then shop.  Even if I'm not buying the same book, Ravelry still gets the affiliate money.

9.  Janine King Bags. Her work is high quality, and she uses great fabrics.  I don't want to say anymore because I've already done some Christmas shopping there and the recipient may read my blog.  Just go take a look.

10.  Title Nine.  The clothes are great, fit well, suit my style, travel like dreams.  Customer service, when I've called, has been amazing.  They make the only sports bra (small bones and back, large breasts…not easy to fit properly) that I can wear running.  For that alone, they have my loyalty!

Sort of random, and I am sure I'm missing a ton of great places to shop online.  I'm looking forward to reading others' lists to get more ideas.  How about you?  What's your favorite online shop?

 

Ten on Tuesday, Thanksgiving Edition

Carole gave us another great topic this week: Ten Things to Love about Thanksgiving.

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1.  Spending time with my family.  I am fortunate to live within a twenty minute drive of my folks.  It's always more special to hang out with them on a holiday, though.

2.  Mashed potatoes.  I rarely have them.  I guess to my way of thinking, they're a side dish for meat, and I don't ever fix meat, so I don't fix mashed potatoes.  Hmmm…maybe I should change that.

3.  Stuffing.  I have a very kind sister-in-law who goes out of her way to accommodate my being a vegetarian.  She always makes a little bit of stuffing sans meat for me.

4.  A morning hike.  I love to take the dogs on a long, vigorous walk and build my appetite.  Thanksgiving hikes are somehow more fun.

5.  Stuffed celery.  The bane of my childhood holiday meals.  How I dreaded shoving the cream cheese into the stalks of celery.  I was a particular little girl and could not stand cream cheese being all sloppy on the celery.  It was a real chore to get it right.  The leftovers, though, rock my world.  That's one of the tastes of my childhood holidays.

6.  Variety. So many sides to try!  So many desserts to nibble!

7.  A long weekend.  The university closes just after noon on Wednesday, and I don't have to go back to work until Monday (although I did promise students revising essays that I would check emails over the weekend).

8.  Memories.  Neal and I had our first date (back when I was 18) the weekend after Thanksgiving.  In 2006, just after Thanksgiving, Neal asked me to marry him.  It's a sentimental time of year!

9.  Lack of pressure.  The day is all about the meal.  It is purely about the joy of sharing food. (Can you tell I'm not cooking the full meal this year?!)

10.  Gratitude.  It is far too easy for days to blend together without pausing to be grateful for all the wonders in the world.  What a lovely thing to have this day to remind me to cultivate an attitude of gratitude.

What do you like best about Thanksgiving?

Ten on Tuesday, Movie Edition

I'm excited about today's Ten on Tuesday topic:  Top Ten Movies I'd like to see in the Theater.  I have been fortunate to see several movies that might have been on the list in a theater: Gone With the Wind, The Wizard of Oz (what great fun: I was on tour w/my ex. and we were killing time before an evening gig.  Only other people in theater were a grandmother, mother, and daughter trio.  Much singing ensued.), The Rear Window.  There's a fantastic Paramount theater where I used to live in New York, and I saw many, many classic movies on the big screen there.  Still, there are plenty I'd like to see:

1.  Breakfast at Tiffany's

2.  Star Wars

3.  Fantasia

4. Sabrina (the original, of course)

5.  The Sound of Music

6.  Mary Poppins

7. Jaws

8. Funny Face (Think Pink!)

9.  Dirty Dancing

10.  Top Hat

These are all movies I've seen on the little screen.  I chatted with Neal to get ideas, and he poo-poo'd my choices.  "Epics," he cried.  "That's what you want on the big screen!"  I disagree, though.  I want to see some of my favorites (Jaws and Starwars aren't faves, but I was too little to see them in the theater when they came out) in their full, original glory.  

How about you?  What would you like to see on the big screen?

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